I feel its a good enough time as any to say that VBH is no longer something I support. Yea, it was essentially just a joke, an excust to use broad generalizations to seemingly equal the playing field or something, but I'm done with it in joke and not.
Every broken heart I've ever had has had much more to do with me opening up my heart far to early and for the wrong reasons. Wrong doings have been done to me by the opposite sex, but I have done uncountable things that I regret myself. Nobody is innocent.
It is finished.